I’m an American architect who has spent much of his life creating things that matter which are buildings, spaces, ideas, and businesses, but the truth is, the most important thing I want to build now is a meaningful life with the right woman. I’m thoughtful, observant, and quietly ambitious. I notice small details, how someone listens, how they treat others, how they show up when it matters. I’m happiest in real conversations, good coffee, and moments that don’t need to be posted or performed. I care about beauty, but even more about integrity. I value curiosity, loyalty, and emotional intelligence far more than perfection. I’m genuinely interested in Ethiopian culture, not in a superficial way, but in the way that comes from wanting to understand someone’s world, her family, her history, her hopes. I believe relationships work best when both people feel seen, respected, and supported. Ok and of course I love the food!!! One genuine connection is all I’m looking for.