Searching for my best friend, my lover, my wife.

where to begin. Well it seems that almost everyone here is looking for the same or at least similar things so why is it so difficult finding someone you want to spend the rest of your life with? And how to sell yourself (in a manner of speaking without sounding like a sheep or overly cliched)? I'll give it a go nonetheless as we are all here for the same purpose (or so I hope). here it goes...... I am a down-to-earth, sort of blase' but at the same time assertive male, intelligent, charismatic, sociable, passionate, confident, professional, kind hearted, considerate, loyal, definitely not dull simply a lovely all rounded person who enjoys life. I live by principles, I believe in genuineness, honesty, respect, commitment and compassion. I see myself as an outgoing bubbly person, someone who loves to laugh and attempts at making others laugh (or at least crack a smile of some sorts). Generally I'm a quiet spoken person (possibly because I have developed a thing for noise pollution, u know the sort, those people blaring out verbal garbage for the sake of it). However I do have a mischievous side to me, I believe you can't enjoy life if you don't add a bit of fun and laughter into it regardless of what life may bring. I enjoy travelling and I'm very lucky for having the opportunity of seeing so many different places.