Doesn't everyone want someone who is interesting, compassionate, romantic, healthy, honest, good sense of humor, etc.? Why wouldn’t someone like a good movie, dining out, good music, holding hands, the arts, an attractive person, etc.? Dating (whether on the internet or in-person) gets to be like comparing resumes. But why are some folks placing lies on their resume like: “I have auburn hair & hazel eyes” when I can look at your complexion & see that your hair color is from Clairol & your hazel eyes are from “LensCrafters.” If we didn't desire a mate/companion with nice qualities, then we wouldn't be too bright. We can write long lists of all of the things that we like, but does it really matter if we don't like each other? I can't do a thing with the education you've earned if you can’t occasionally enlighten me with something new. I'm very interesting and intriguing, educated too. However, that’s only a portion of who I am. It would be nice if you have: your own place (versus living with Momma), a stable occupation, a vehicle, & you’re healthy inside & out. But those items are only a portion of what you may have to offer. It would be nice if you can articulate your thoughts well & be consistent (i.e. Do your actions match your words?). Instead of being quick to cast judgement or criticism – Are you quick to encourage, enhance, build up, &/or pray for a healthy friendship?