To accept and to hold oneself with more affectionate hug. Wrapping both arms and make kisses. Self love is putting feelings above all. No walls or barriers, just the ugly truth. See it as is. No filter in between. Eventually those inner mirrors shatter and inner walls deteriorate and becomes one big room. Emptiness fills it like it's a new room Tobe occupied by tenant. But selflove occupies it,nothing more. Self love is telling her inner ear that beauty is on her. Make her smile that hard to hurt her lips while wrinkles around her eyes show instead of big smile. The thought of laughing happenes. I self love you, her, him them.