My international traveling has really defined my palate for the type of lady I'm looking for, Spirituality in deed is a MUST, Able not only to see the big picture but willing to pay the price it takes to get there, Not into the keeping up with the Jones type, Not even into chasing the American dream (no one seems to know what it is) Not into the fantasy relationships that is based on the definition from TV series and Hollywood movies. But someone has moved on past the scars of life and able to give and receive love.andIn that same sentence I do believe chivalry is alive and well. Secure in who she is, has prepared herself along the path of life of being a better person.